A Reflection of Our Heart

"That very day Pilate and Herod became friends with each other, for previously they had been at enmity with each other." (Luke 23:12)

Friendship is a powerful thing. It can either lift us to the highest heavens or drag us down to the depths. In the case of Herod and Pilate, their newfound friendship was sealed over a mutual compromise of integrity and a shared disregard for the truth that stood before them—Jesus Christ.

"Whoever walks with the wise becomes wise, but the companion of fools will suffer harm." (Proverbs 13:20)

Friendship isn't just about companionship; it's about influence. Our friends can influence our thoughts, behaviours, and even our spiritual state. When we consider the implications of Proverbs 13:20, we must ask ourselves, "Do my friends make me wiser or lead me to folly?"

"Do not be deceived: 'Bad company corrupts good morals.'" (1 Corinthians 15:33)

Pilate and Herod disregarded the divine presence of Jesus before them to maintain their worldly status and authority. They prioritised their social standing over moral integrity. Similarly, we often find ourselves in the company of people who might not be guiding us towards the right path, all in the name of maintaining our 'status' or social comfort. But remember, no worldly gain is worth the erosion of your soul.

"Two are better than one, because they have a good reward for their toil. For if they fall, one will lift up his fellow. But woe to him who is alone when he falls and has not another to lift him up!" (Ecclesiastes 4:9-10)

This scripture doesn't merely glorify friendship; it glorifies righteous friendship—friendship that uplifts, that holds accountable, that walks in the ways of wisdom and righteousness.

The Bible warns us, "You adulterous people! Do you not know that friendship with the world is enmity with God? Therefore whoever wishes to be a friend of the world makes himself an enemy of God." (James 4:4)

It's not that we shouldn't befriend those who don't share our beliefs; indeed, Lord Jesus himself was a friend to tax collectors and sinners. Our friendships with non-believers should be seen as a mission field where we can share the Gospel. But when the influence starts to reverse—when we find our values, ethics, and faith starting to waver—then it's time to reassess our associations.

We are all called to be salt and light in the world (Matthew 5:13-16). Let your friendships be a reflection of the Gospel you profess. Have friends who sharpen you "as iron sharpens iron" (Proverbs 27:17), but also have friendships that serve as mission fields for the Gospel. Take a moment today to evaluate your friendships. Do they draw you closer to Christ or pull you away? Remember, true friendships should not lead you astray but should guide your heart towards the best friend of all—Lord Jesus Christ.

A Reflection of Our Heart

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